lazy day again . Ive been on PC most of today so has Mavis. On the walk roun she said she gets bored  Sundays. Nothing happens. But out of the blue late tis afternoon the doorbell rang it was a friend of hers from Essex. She gave  her a giant pumpkin. mavis called me  to meet her. I was nodding  when the bell rang so I waddled half awake to meet this  friend. But  she must have thought me very rude. because half awake and saying hello to a stranger I didnt have much to say.

I didnt want to  seem rude I hope she wont hold it against me.

Ive been ages filling out on line driver renewal for mavis. But it constantly says not elligable for this service but didnt say why. I kept going over and over the form but each time it was rejected. So I gave up and will ring them in the morning. But later when searching for  something else I came accross her form and guesse what her new licence is still attatched. So  thats why  the form rejected me. You can only  have one licence.

I am getting ear bashed Oh yes its the crap factor sorry  X factor. Where  are the pins for my eyes.

Checking the battery  on my new phone this afternoon it was showing 76% so from its charge yesterday and its been on all day thats not bad.

Normally  I would think about an early night because of an early  start at 4.45  in the morning tomorrow. But  we changed it to Tuesday. So  No early night after all.



IMG_20140517_181721First let me say Mavis thinks I am stark raving mad. Today was Louis exam day. He is a bit nervous. Which is natural, but I’ve reassured him that he will be ok.

Every morning when I take him up the lane on his early morning walk I talk to him about all sorts of things, Recently we have discussed black holes and the singularity.

Life out in the universe and ancient civilizations. So he has a lot to take in. He recently did well in his maths and English exams . He got 5  A  grades so I was pleased. So this morning after a short  revision we set off  . It was a bit damp under foot  but  bright and sunny. Traffic was light. So  I told him  he had 30 minutes to answer  the first 10 questions  from the moment we stepped outside. As usual he trotted ahead. I asked him  all his questions and gave him  time to think about  it. When it was time to turn round and walk back I could see that confident stride.  Tail  was held high and his jaunty  pad with the occasional look back at me showed he was confident of a pass mark.

He leapt through the open door to greet Mavis  again. So  I said have you told mummy  the good news. She said well did you pass baby. I said he has passed with flying colors. Soon he will have to leave home and go to university. He could get his phd.

Now life has settled back a bit. he is asleep after his ordeal but I am sure he has a smile on his face.

Did anyone watch the Great Fire Last night. I was left bored. I expected more. best bit of soap news was that bitch is still locked in her tin box and jay and sam wont be letting her out anytime soon. Now its dingle against dingle.

Later a trip out  and a bit of shopping. We seem to have got out town back now the summer season is closing.

Also  out there walking was  a group  walking a little dog. The young man  with  the dog  was on his phone. ” Yes  Its arranged he is  going to  the re home assessment centre on monday. I have not told my little girl yet. I dont want to do it but I have to.”

Thats all I heard but how sorry I felt for that little dog padding along in oblivion that in a few days time it will be dumped into  a new home . What we put our pets through. I just thought it was appropriate today after louis graduated.images


Ive been playing with  my new toy. Trying to  get apps and ringtones and contacts etc. So far so good.

Its nice and bright outside now its stopped drizzling. gradually working down my todo list but it seems one off the top  and one gets add on the bottom.

We took louis to the park but yuk it was so muddy. maybe park walks are done for the rest of the  winter months.

Short and sweet today   Ive not done much at all.


Wow the dpd delivery notification said my  package will arrive between 1048 and 1148. At 10 49 the bell rang it was my package. Fantastic service.

I opened the box and found my new phone. After inserting the battery it sprang into life. Picking up my router and connecting  to the new I clicked the button and it had found my contacts  it updated all my photos. I was amazed. Almost everything on my  old phone was automatically  now on this one hows that. My biggest fear  was the online reviews said I would not be able to  use Googles Play  store for apps but  its on  there no probs. So basically I am at the moment most impressed. My next  problem is I have to cut down my standard size sim to  micro sim. You only get one chance so I am  a bit hesitant at the moment. But I must do it. Watch this space.


I  did take the plunge and cut both my  standard sims down to micro sims. Heart in mouth  and gently inserted them. Hey presto  they both work. So Ive spent some time going through  the menus. It seems to  be mostly automatic. All my important apps have been transferred and are working. A job well done.


Up early  and out for a Patient  rep  meeting. It was a slow trip to Maidstone traffic was crawling. But  we made it in time. parking meters were not taking notes or cards. So it was dig deep for change. I put my  pound coins in and a pounds worth of 20p. But the machine insisted it wanted another 20p so I put one in No it still wanted 20p  mavis was asking me from behind if I could help a lady with change whilst I am in the middle of a crisis over 20 bloody p. but still it wanted another 20p so in frustration I punched and thumped the stupid machine. not untill I had fed the hungry git with  my last 20p did it finally accept I paid my share.

I had an email confirmation my new phone was being delivered today. Blast we wont be here to sign  for it .It’s not  supposed to be here untill thursday , the tracking number they gave me isn’t recognised and its now late afternoon and it’s not here so I don’t know whats what.

Its not my day really ,as I stepped out of the car my Tablet slid out of my pocket and bounced on the car park. It now has a few scars . How I hate imperfections. But it still works so  that’s about as good as it gets.


A quiet day. I was wide awake most of last night  it was 4.45  when I last got up. After which I  finally dropped off. It was 9.30 when I  woke up. Looking at the pouring rain I didnt miss much. Ive been out with louis a couple of times and we got soaked.

The dustmen must be on strike no bins  were emptied. mavis  and louis decided it was time once more  for a walk between showers  but mavis couldnt breathe so we took it  easy.

Its Lungdog meeting  in the morning at Maidstone so its up and out early  for a 9 am meeting.

I am amazed that its 4.40 now way past my nap time and I am still wide awake?


I have spent days now literally days searching the net for a new phone. Ive checked the specs a dozen times made a list marked them  out of 10 . repeated  for price. then repeated for  spec today I narrowed it down to 3. At last I made a decision before lunch but  I continued to check and check again right up to 4-30 before I hesitantly pressed the buy now button.

I  gave up on  chasing prices. I paid more that I intended. But the experience of buying my last phone in a hurry I bought cheap. But  cheap  don’t mean good. So  although Ive not got the latest up to the minute on the market. It will  hopefully do it all for me. I dont play games so  the fastest  is no problem I ended up at least with a named brand Samsung s4 Duos. All I got to do when it comes is to cut up my sims to fit. That could be heart attack stress yuk.

Anyway enough of that. We decided not to go to the park with louis ,instead  we took a walk round our old walk we used to do before my heart attack. made a change. My  nasty cough has eased a bit today mavis said I wasnt too bad  during the night so I recon a couple more days will see it all gone.

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